If there was a something that existed called "The Love Switch".... all of heartache could be resolved.
I truly believe our hearts ache when we love someone we shouldnt love or dont love someone that we should. When someone cheats on you or breaks up with you, the hurt is so deep because your heart still loves them. If you had a switch to shut that off then it would be easy to go on with your life.
Unfortunately in the real world.... this does not exist. We go on loving people that do not give us the love that we know we deserve. Our brians have moved on....yet our hearts have not. Your brain can often lie to your heart and you might think "your over it"... until a few glasses of wine and you start "bottom lip- out of control- crying" .... oh yes... we've all been there.
You can also have the issue of ... I know this person loves me and is perfect for me ...but I do not love them. In this case the "love switch" would also be great! Unfortunatly again.... does not exist. The best thing to do in this case... eventhough this person makes you feel good about yourself... if you do not love them back... don't be a "me monster"... you have to break up and stop talking to them before you cause a world of hurt.
I truly believe that if you have ever truly loved someone that you will love and care for them until the day that you die. This is why you can not maintain a friendship with someone you love. You are asking for a world full of hurt. So until someone creates "the love switch".... get a diversion to help shut off the pain of loving someone you shouldn't....and set up a diversion to the person that loves you but you don't love back.
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